Not all swiss escort girls are fabulously rich, but by and large, they make a good living via selling companionship, erotic entertainment, and sexual services. The buyers are typically men- often married or in long-term relationships. If you are married and you see private escorts in Geneva regularly or occasionally, you are far from unique. Customers like you often discuss online tricky situations they can come across, and one of their common fears is being found out. Perhaps you are troubled by the same thoughts. How would you handle the situation if your secret is revealed?  In all affairs and shadowy liaisons, the golden rule is “prevention is better than cure”. The best tactic is to stick to some basic measures and avoid getting caught in the first place.

 Firstly, consider your location. If you live in a small or an average size town, or in a suburb where people know each other, there is a high chance you will be noticed if you visit regularly a local companion. You can bump into a friend or a family member on the way in or out. Even if you manage to come up with a plausible explanation, sooner or later some chitchat may reach your spouse. Therefore consider booking girls outside your residential area to minimize the chances of getting recognized when you call round to see her. Then, you have to act carefully in your own home.  Remember to secure your phone, laptop and PC with passwords and lock the screens. If you use a PC or a laptop jointly with other family members, clear your browsing history. Any searches into sex workers' websites or swiss escort directories would raise suspicions, so ensure you delete scrupulously all your browsing data and regularly clear any implicating details.

 Next, get a burner phone. You want to hide your escapades and spend parts of your life undercover, so you might as well learn from the experts.  Limit all your escort-related contacts to the burner phone – texts, calls, videos, and picture messages should all go solely through it. Purchase the phone with cash, secure it with a password, and load it with credit via pay-as-you-go cards. The benefit of the burner phone is that it is a cheap and impersonal device that is not traceable to you. You will use it for one thing only, without connecting it to any of your important apps, such as online banking, work-related files, or social media accounts. If you need to dispose of it quickly, you can do it without losing any important information. Because of the lack of any identifying features the phone will not be traceable to you. If your partner happens to notice it and quiz you about it, you can pretend it is the first time you ever see it and even chuck it in the bin for extra effect.  Then all you need to do is get another cheap phone that will be just as good for the job.  

 If you opt for hotel rendezvous, leave no paper or email trail documenting your booking. Pay in cash if possible. Inviting an escort girl to the place you share with your partner is probably not a good idea. Nosy neighbors can notice her movements when arriving or leaving. Then there are those fine, almost imperceptible minutiae indicating a stranger’s visit - a strand of hair here, a tiny speck of make-up there. Men often overlook those yet women somehow detect them instantly, with the instinct of a sovereign whose domain has been breached. If her suspicions are confirmed, all bets are off as the act will be viewed as demeaning to the very existence of your marriage/relationship - and treated as the worst possible indiscretion.

In the same vein, take extra care to remove any signs from your face, body, and clothing when you leave the hotel after the session. Remember – it is not just perfume you have to worry about. Moisturiser, lipsticks or mascara all leave residue. Massage oils can be felt and sensed on your skin for hours after being applied. So, shower before you head out, and don’t forget to have a look in the mirror to ensure there are no dubious marks on your face.

 Don’t share details about your date with an escort girl with friends, even if you trust them unreservedly. It might be difficult as sometimes you feel so elated after seeing some hot Lausanne or Geneva escorts you want to shout to the world about it.  But it is safer to keep this knowledge mostly to yourself as you don’t know how it can be exploited in the future. Allegiances and loyalties fluctuate.  Friendships get tested.  Should this happen you don’t want former pals to be in a possession of sensitive information about you. Then again, sometimes you do need a confidante or your mind can become clogged with secrets. Pick a trusted person to offload to, preferably a family member who is happy to be used as a sounding board and is unlikely to betray you at some point down the line.

 Unfortunately, even with the best preparation and plenty of caution, sometimes things develop in complex and unpredictable ways. You might be unable to maintain the secrecy and the truth may come out. You will then need to consider your line of defense. The first question relates to the nature of your indiscretion. Are you really guilty of adultery?

 Well, it all depends on the viewpoint. If your partner considers all forms of intimacy outside the scope of your relationship a betrayal, then she will certainly label your session as infidelity. However, some argue that adultery suggests an emotional investment. The relationships between local escort girls and their clients are transactional in nature, so they resemble more a deal, a contract where payment changes hands. There is no indication of emotions, at least on the surface, as presumably the transaction is mostly to do with sexual service or similar activities, such as erotic massage. Some partners tend to see this as exonerating factor and can forgive it for the sake of the relationship. There are even couples who tacitly accept the “don’t ask, don’t tell” principle. They have built a good life together, perhaps at the cost of significant efforts and sacrifices on both sides. They enjoy all the trappings of an otherwise good marriage – a beautiful family home, financial security, great holidays, and a supportive network of family and friends. They care for each other. Things in the bedroom are stale, but apart from that, everything is ticking along nicely. Quite sensibly, the partners might accept they should not create a huge drama out of minor transgressions. If the man wants to meet his favorite companion discreetly a couple of times a week, the main relationship can still thrive, and no one should feel side-lined or hurt. It is a question of accepting the complexities of human desire and men’s sexual needs.

 Or it could be that you want to see a specialist escort in Lausanne because of a particular fetish your wife feels unable or unwilling to indulge. This is far from the classic scenario of adultery and is more related to the need for sexual expression and fulfillment. In fact, an understanding partner can approve of your desire to explore options outside the relationship, and accept this will bring benefits in the long run. This could be the healthiest and most rational course of action as it would allow finding a middle ground and a compromise between the parties.

 Naturally, some men book an escort girl in Geneva simply because their marriages are bad and they look for affection and contentment. They may even think that paying for sex is a relatively honest choice as they do not have to go down the route of one-night stands with strangers or workplace affairs. For many of them, a session with an escort girl might actually be the catalyst needed to get them out of a relationship that has run its course. Their actions might be motivated by the intuitive wish to be found out, so they can finally face the reality, endure the relationship's downfall, and then break free.

 So, the truth is out. Confess or deny? It very much depends on the circumstances.

In the face of categorical proof, denial would be meaningless and would only serve to aggravate your partner further. If you have been waiting for a suitable moment to tell her it is over, now is the time. It will be painful, so make it quick – confess, then leave.  If you feel you need to save your marriage, then weigh up the evidence against you. If they are weak, deny the accusations. Reject the charges. Don’t forget, that people have a great capacity for self-delusion. If your partner wants to save the relationship, she would be inclined to believe and accept your version of events.

 However, if the evidence is stacked against you, all you can do is own up. Think what has prompted you to book an escort girl and whether the experience can somehow help your relationship. Maybe you are now more open-minded, more attentive, and have better erotic techniques? Use these skills to improve your marriage – and you may well realize you have paid for sex and some marriage counseling at once.

Many clients who see Lausanne escorts are in a long-standing relationship, such as marriage or other types of partnership. If you are one of those customers, you need to be realistic and accept that once you start meeting prostitutes, there is a certain risk of exposure. This does not have to spoil your pleasure or make you feel uneasy or paranoid. All you need is awareness of your circumstances. It is up to you to minimize the probability of being found out. You will benefit from a good judgment of people and situations, as well from tact and foresight.  A disclosure can have many negative consequences for you – personal, professional, and financial, so take precautions and do not conduct your liaisons recklessly. A bit of danger is not necessarily a bad thing. Seen from a different perspective, this condition for secrecy can actually offer an extra layer of excitement. It is well known that in any adventure, barriers increase the thrills. The very nature of a connection that is seen as forbidden can deepen your feelings and make you indulge in it with even greater enjoyment.  Just be sensible and don’t let your guard down.

You will do well to adopt certain techniques from the secret agent manual. Think about the best ways to hide your pursuits and create a credible façade.

Consider the risks posed by the digitalization of the world we live in. We conduct a lot of our routine activities online. And everything we do via a computer, an android phone, or a similar device leave marks in the online space. These marks lead back to us. Your searches, spending, and purchases are all traceable, so think carefully of the measures you need to secure privacy. Password, lock screens, and regular clean-up of data are a must. Invest in a basic phone to use separately for your communication with call girls, and don’t store any other information on it.

 It is also essential to pay in cash for all escort services. On the surface, this seems like an easy behavioral change to introduce, but in practice, it requires significant modification of the way you think and plans your spending.  Remember, it is not just one payment you have to consider, but everything associated with the escort service directly or implicitly. Before you actually start paying in cash, you cannot appreciate how dependent we have become on card payments. They are quick, convenient, and fuss-free, and require no preparation. The problem is every purchase is recorded and therefore trackable. Even if the statement does not obviously list payment to an agency, there could be giveaways such as dinner and hotel bills, or receipts from luxury lingerie boutiques. If you are not able to provide a plausible explanation, these can easily land you in hot water. The solution is to prepare in advance and not buy impulsively.  Do not carry large amounts of cash with you all the time - just ensure you have the money ready on the day you are seeing the escort girl. Similarly, if you are buying gifts, plan this in advance and only take the cash with you when visiting the shop. If you do not have the cash with you, do not buy – simple! Don’t be tempted to just reach for your card regardless of how handy and tempting it feels. It is a question of establishing good habits and separating the spending into categories – cash for all your clandestine activities, card for everything else. There should be no mixing between the two and no exceptions. Stick to the cash rule when you pay for travel too. Taxis or public transport payments can be traced to your card or phone so ensure you don’t use cards for payment. You can also turn off the location tracking on your mobile phone just in case someone is curious enough to check your whereabouts while you are not looking.

 Don’t be enticed to overspend. In the long run, seeing prostitutes in Geneva might be associated with considerable expenses, particularly if they work for a high-class agency. Substantial cash withdrawals that are too frequent can raise suspicion, so stick to a monthly limit if possible. To soften the impact on your account, you can also try to withdraw smaller portions via separate transactions rather than a significant one-off sum. Always carry the cash safely, preferably on you rather than stashed in a bag. Do not flash it when in a public space and do not carry all the available cash at once if you don’t need it – take with you what you need and no more.

 Consider your movements when you are out to meet the escort girl in Lausanne. Urban landscapes are often saturated with CCTVs and our trips are observable. You don’t have to freak out about this - it is improbable there will be much interest in CCTV footage of you hanging around a hotel. It does demonstrate however our general visibility. Ensure you are not waiting too long in a hotel lobby or in front of a building in a busy part of the town. There is always a chance you will bump into someone you know. Maintain a low-profile, low-risk presence and don’t draw attention to yourself - no hanging on, no chitchat with strangers passing by.  If you opt to meet the prostitute in a hotel, ensure it is not one frequented by people from your family or professional circle.  Ideally, for a full evening with dining out, followed by a session at a hotel, your best choice is to book a call girl in another canton. Perhaps you can combine this with a business trip, especially if traveling on your own. If you are in the company of co-workers, be careful - not everyone is open-minded enough to approve or condone the idea. Some may judge you, or even try and create trouble for you in the future. If you wish to maintain a relationship with local Geneva call girls, then you have to accept some restrictions, so you do not happen upon people you know.

 If you are visiting the sex worker at her residence, ensure you familiarise yourself with the location in advance. Arrive on time – don’t be late, but don’t be too early either. Turing up before time for the session means you have to wait around, which increases the probability of meeting someone you know. Be inconspicuous - try and blend with the crowd.  The more you draw attention to yourself, the higher the chance you will be noticed.

 From the onset, establish times with the companion when you are available for a callback. Point out clearly when these hours are. Perhaps early mornings and late evenings are when you are with the family. Therefore your preferred time for communication with her will be during your work day. If you think there is a risk of your meetings being interrupted, you can choose to speak during your lunch break. You might feel that your working environment is safer compared to home. Remember, however, things change and people can betray your confidence. Even your right-hand partner or your trusty PA can be tempted to reveal or use a juicy piece of gossip against you. Don’t put yourself in a position where you could be vulnerable to intimation or coercion. The truth is, you never know how tables can turn one day, so just follow the general rules of secrecy, at work and also at home. If you do get a call in surroundings you don’t trust, answer and state they got the wrong number. Don’t worry that the agency or the call girl will find this odd – remember in this business they deal with clients in various social, marital, and relationship circumstances. Adult professionals are perfectly aware of the need for privacy - it is at the very core of their work.

 It may happen so that after booking one call girl you get a real taste for these services and desire to see various companions. Lots of clients end up meeting many of the sex workers on the agency’s list. There is one golden etiquette rule:  do not talk with your current companion about other escorts – there is always a chance your words will somehow reach them. You might think that professionals are not particularly bothered about your opinion and are only interested in pocketing the money after the session. Don’t forget: prostitutes are women first and professionals second. Of course, if you compare them unfavorably to colleagues, they would be hurt and upset. It is insensitive, rude, and gossipy. Imagine if they judge you against other clients and discuss your looks or your sexual prowess and technique with them - you would be mortified!

 In addition, consider how competitive their business is.  Yes, there is camaraderie and cooperation between many sex workers, but jealousy and competition are common too and can be found on every level – from the high-end escort agencies to the budget-type outfits. Remember, each one of these swiss escorts works hard and expects appreciation from her customers.

 If you have an issue with any of them, sort it in conversation or via the agency. You also have the recourse of reviews to share your impression and point out any problems. As long as your opinion is objective and not mean-spirited, it will probably be taken the right way and any problems will be rectified, if possible.  Talking behind the companion’s back is undignified. It can be insensitive and hurtful to the subject of the conversation. And, it will harm your customer’s standing too. You won’t be trusted. The agency staff tends to be very guarded when it comes to their employees. Intrigues between workers can be deeply damaging for the business, so no agency will take kindly to your indiscretions.  

 Of course, it might be that the escort girl herself urges you to share your opinion on her colleagues – unfortunately, no occupation is exempt from poor professional standards. If you find yourself in such a situation, try and switch the talk to a different topic or just answer with a few brief pleasantries. Don’t fall into the trap of false intimacy that gossiping creates. You have not acquired a special place in the companion’s heart - she is just fishing for information on her co-workers. Obliging her will make you look childish and disrespectful.  Keeping neutral is the best policy as even positive phrases can be misunderstood or misconstrued.

 Equally, do not overshare your own life story. It can be very tempting to open up to someone who has shown you a lot of attention in the space of a short time. Clients who have suffered loneliness (without or within a marriage or a long-standing relationship) can be particularly susceptible to this. The release of emotions they experience after a fulfilling session can translate into an overwhelming desire for closeness. Some of them think the route to this is via revealing more about themselves and their background. And so, in a misplaced expression of trust, they start spilling out very personal details.

 Naturally, professional companions are aware of the importance to keep customers’ information strictly private and do not disclose to third parties anything they learn during the sessions. However, as a client, you should always retain some doubt and reservations – just to be on the safe side. In time, many independent escorts from Geneva become very close to their clients, but getting overfamiliar too soon can be problematic and unsafe for you.

 Even if you feel growing intimacy between you and the escort girl, your communication should remain professional. You should treat her respectfully and show appreciation of her work commitments. For instance, you should never simply pop in at her workplace because you believe she will be happy to see you. The booking rules apply to all clients and if you arrive uninvited, she will show you the door.  Even if you want to make spontaneously some grand gestures, such as bringing her an expensive gift unannounced, reserve this for the session. Do not expect that she will see you outside her working hours, least of all that she would interrupt a session with another customer to meet you. Remember, you are paying for a slice of her time, not for her unlimited availability to you. Understanding this will guarantee a relationship based on mutual respect and will ensure you are less likely or encounter disagreement or suffer disappointment along the way.